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75 and going strong

September 1, 2010
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My dad turned 75 today (Sept. 1).

His hair is white and he had a pacemaker placed in his chest in May, but he’s still the strongest man I know. Or, as he told me during an argument we had a few years ago, “I can still take you out.” He was right when he said it and he still can.

Dad has been a diesel mechanic since he was 17, though he sold heavy equipment in Missouri for a few years in the mid-1970s. He has retired a couple of times in recent years. He closed his shop at Sweet Home about 10 years ago, but he continued to rent out his services as a shop foreman for others.

Then he tried retirement again a couple of years ago, but he kept getting offers from old customers to “just come by and  help out.” When the doctor strongly suggested early this year that some dizzy spells he had while driving indicated that he needed a pacemaker to help his heart, Dad resisted for a while — he thought it might keep him from working. But a third round of dizziness convinced him the device was necessary, so he had to done.

In the process of “taking it easy” during recovery, Dad has increased his interest in auctions. He used to look for equipment and various tools by attending estate sales and similar events. Early this year he sold off his service truck and some of his tools at an auction, but came home with a new pickup and other tools. Now he helps a man who puts on auctions get ready for them.

When he’s at home, he spends his time in his workshop, on a riding lawn mower or out back “checking the garden.” He’s also learning to make stained glass.

Mom may have realized by now that he’s not really going to retire. Or maybe she just keeps giving him a list of things to do so he will keep working. He would have no idea what to do with himself if he had to just sit in his recliner.


Where did the time go?

October 6, 2009
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My oldest child, Patrick, turned 27 today.

His landmark doesn’t particularly make me feel any older — we all become a day older every day. it’s just that the fact that some of us may be closer to the short end of the candle wick bothers some people more than others.

It does seem remarkable that 27 years have passed in Patrick’s life. In thinking back to the day he was born, it does seem like 27 years ago.

I would have to say that he has used his early adult years wisely, as far as exploring what he should be when he grows up. He has:

  • Built, or “digitally designed,” newspaper pages in Fort Worth;
  • Worked for Kinko’s in Arlington, Texas, and Boston;
  • Photographed amateur sports events in the Dallas-Fort Worth area;
  • Taught classes at Apple Computer stores; and
  • Served as a Mac computer technician for a recording studio that produces a nationally syndicated radio show from Weatherford, Texas.

The fun part of his being 27 is that we are still close, at least chatting online or e-mailing everyday and talking 2-3 times a week by phone.

Have a great day, Patrick.